As I travel the country to speak to students on how to get better grades, pass standardized test, and make the most of their education, I’m baffled by the student-counselor, parent-counselor and student-advisor relationships.
In some cases, students don’t know if they are on track for graduation or have the required classes to get into college; and the parents aren’t involved. In other cases, students are spending time with their counselors and “juicing them” for great information.
Which one are you?
During my high school days, I stayed in my counselors office (as well as my mother) to make sure that I had everything I needed to make the leap from high school to college. While in college, I spent time with my college advisor to make sure that I was doing the necessary thing to maximize my college experience and plan for future career. THEY BOTH PAID OFF!!
High School Counselors and College Advisors are FOR YOU! Believe it or not, it makes them very happy when their students succeed. So utilize the great advice and services that counselors and advisors offer at your school – take full advantage of them!
Here’s a few conversation starters with your counselors and advisors
CONVERSATION STARTERS
20 Great Questions to Ask Your High School Counselor
What to Ask Your Academic Advisor in College
Financial Planning for the Future College Bill
OTHER RESOURCES
I Went To College , But Don’t Know Why?
This is a small list of questions and resources just to engage in healthy communication between the student, the parent and the counselor/advisor.
If you feel additional questions or resources need to be asked, leave me a comment below so that I and others can benefit from your suggestions.

